What would you do if you did conquer all your miseries. That is nirvana. Now the idea is not to kill the sadness or think through all the things that cause you misery. Defeating something is far from understanding it. You don’t go to war and beat the enemy by killing it, you do it by becoming its friend. Misery will exist forever, and it is Rahul that understands that deeply – thereby conquering it through and through. This is it.
Misery comes and goes like a wave, and it is the job of the miserer to understand that misery is himself and himself is the misery. Its a response to an action or a person. That is all. This is it.