This is a ridiculous concept really if you think about it deep down inside. Its like saying that there are two-three versions of you, out of which only one is acceptable. There are ofcourse many people involved with the day-to-day struggles of life and many of them are you. Versions of you. A rich you, a poor you, a bastard you, a saint you. But you. So if you choose love, then you are you in love with others. If you choose hate then you are hate in the eyes of the people. Its only a choice that you make today and thereafter, and not one that needs to be repented upon for years to come. You are IT and that IT is everything that you can and want to be. Such is life, and such is being yourself.